Breakthrough to Success
This past weekend I went on the most amazing course. I’m a fan of courses, semimars, workshops, and the like, particularly those aimed at self-development. This 3-day course was a hybrid of NLP (neuro linguistic programming), hypnosis, and the latest techniques in re-setting negative mind patterns.
Now what has this got to do with writing?
Well, in my own personal experience and that of working with lots of other writers, one of the biggest stumbling blocks I keep coming up against is that of self-belief. Or lack of it.
The limitations we place upon ourselves, in all walks of life, are often the things which hold us back. We think we are not good enough, we have the fixed opinion that getting a book published will be hard work, we expect rejections. And when we get a rejection we let that rejection spiral into other rejections because we start to equate one person’s opinion with everyone’s opinion.
Which is why coaching is such a big business. An athlete needs a coach. A tennis star has a coach. A singer often has a voice coach. Even the most successful people in the world have coaches. Especially the succussful people. Why? Because a coach helps you eradicate all the weaknesses in your game. A coach can help you believe.
I’m not going to go on and on about coaches here, but what I will say is that being a professional writer is not always about having the best product on the market. It’s about self-belief, the self-confidence to promote yourself, and the focus, will, and power to keep going when you have a goal worth pursuing.
I haven’t written this blog for a while, 3 weeks or so, mainly because I’ve been busy, but also because I’d gone off the boil re my own novel. The rewrite loomed over me, I found myself staring at blank page after blank page whilst my mind floated skyward, and deep down I was starting to doubt. Doubting my ability to finish a project, to successfully sell a project, to make it into the big time. I’d had the course scheduled for months, it was a gift, a free ticket, and I knew it would represent a turning point for me, because what I needed more than anything was a healthy kick up the butt.
I highly, more than highly, more than anything, recommend this weekend course. There’s ones in Australia, the US and London so whereever you are you can go experience the Christopher Howard experience. He’s a dynamic, fun, charismatic teacher that will help you unearth any limiting beliefs that are holding you back from actualising your dreams.
I’ve got a hundred free tickets for the next Breakthrough to Success seminar in March. It takes place in London and if you want to reach into your pysche and pull out any demons, or if you want to believe that anything, even having a bestselling book, is achievable, then click on this link and reserve your place now.
http://champions.christopherhoward.co.uk/ukbts.asp?cli=CLA1017875
