Yesterday I had my first coaching session. It’s called Breakthrough to Success coaching and I signed up for it at the Breakthrough to Success seminar I went on a couple of weeks back. I knew if I had walked out of that seminar without signing up for coaching I would have, quite successfully, talked myself out of it. But the question - When would NOW be the right time to start? - reverberated around my head and I knew I had to sign up for 12 months coaching. It was an act of instinct, of knowingness that if I wanted to turn my life around, and I do, I needed to take action and commit to it.
So I signed the form, paid quite a lot of money (for me), and walked out of that hall knowing I had made one of the most important decisions in my life. To start investing in me. I believe that all successful change, be it in relationships, finances, career, even health, happens when we allow it to. It happens from the inside out. As I have said before on this blog, clear the inner obstacles, the limiting belief choices, the blocking emotions, and you go a long way to achieving your goals.
I found the weekend seminar hugely helpful, but I knew I hadn’t got rid of all my shit in one 3 day course. I knew that to fully commit to my vision of publishing my book and it becoming a bestseller, I had to go deeper. What is it that sometimes holds me back in my life? What fears do I have around success? What limiting decisions have I made along the way that can now be dropped?
Coaching allows you to confront all of this and gives you permission to become the biggest, brightest version of yourself. To move from where you are now to where you want to be. To step into your authentic self.
I’m dead excited by the prospect of the next 12 months and all the change I will make. Change comes from the inside first. Change my inner workings and I’ll see the outside manifestation of it. I’ll keep you posted!
My goal is clear and loud, and here’s how they teach you to phrase it: It is now (insert date) and I am/I have (insert goal and be as specific as possible!) So, for example, It is now Oct 2008 and I am standing in my kitchen talking on my mobile to my agent and he’s just told me that the Spanish territory rights to my novel have been sold!
Try a few for yourself. Have fun with them. And don’t just believe them, expect them.
If you are interested in the Breakthrough to Success weekend, and they take place in London, Australia and the US - then click on this link and book your free ticket NOW. Ask yourself, is now the right time to start?